Grace, Words

Words Like Hot-Buttered Popcorn

No Comments 18 June 2008

Press the arrow to listen to “Kindness” by Chris Tomlin as you read today’s devotion on well-seasoned words.

Scripture
Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person. Colossians 4:6

Observation
Ungarnished popcorn won’t travel far. But sprinkle it with salt and butter and it will go by the handful. Seasoning is everything not just with food but also with our words.

Paul made a promise for us: If we take time to craft our words well, God will teach us what to say next. Our seasoning is grace. We could prattle off definition of grace: love we don’t deserve. But what does grace sound like in a speech bubble?

It is focused on others and not on itself.
It forgives slights and slices.
It is unquenchably cheerful.
It feels what others hurt and heals.
It understands and then is understood.
It finds a spark and blows on it.
It uses the punctuation of thankfulness.
It gives what is not deserved.

The bottom line is this: those who have experienced grace, speak graciously.

Gracious people are used by God because he can trust them with the script he writes into daily conversation. When we take time to season our words with grace God will give us what to say next.

Application
All too often, my words leave the kitchen of my heart preparation without the sprinkling of grace. Anyone can be well behaved in public words, but what about those to the people closest to us?  I need to travel with salt and use it liberally.

Prayer
Father, help me to remember to keep seasoning every bite. Amen.

Leadership, Wisdom, Words

Understanding

No Comments 31 May 2008

Press the arrow to listen to Michael Card perform “God’s Own Fool” while reading today’s devotion.

Scripture

He who neglects discipline despises himself,
But he who listens to reproof acquires understanding.
Proverbs 15:32

A rebuke goes deeper into one who has understanding
Than a hundred blows into a fool.
Proverbs 17:10

Wisdom is in the presence of the one who has understanding,
But the eyes of a fool are on the ends of the earth.
Proverbs 17:24

He who restrains his words has knowledge,
And he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.
Proverbs 17:27

A fool does not delight in understanding,
But only in revealing his own mind.
Proverbs 18:2

Observation
What is in the mind of a wise sage? People of understanding are a mystery to explore. Because they say so little and explain even less, it is difficult to know what is in their minds.

What is in the mind of the understanding man?  From these words in Proverbs about understanding the secret is exposed:

I am not the expert.
I have blind spots.
Rebuke and correction sensitize me to the limits of myself and the beginning of God.

There is deeper wisdom in the Lord.
I don’t have to chase wild schemes.
His wisdom surrounds me.

I do not need to defend myself.
God can answer for me.

Wisdom is not in the rabble of debate.
Deep beneath and far behind human scurry and flurry are the eternal words of God.
I will wait for those sentences to surface.
One sentence of truth will silence many words.
May I be the carrier of that single sentence.

Application
These are the words of the person of understanding. I want them to be my own.

Prayer
Father, help me to say more by saying less. Give me patience not to speak when much is being spoken. Help me not to be quick to self-defence, when you are setting me free by rebuke. Make me a man of understanding. Amen.

Leadership, Words

On Using Words Well

No Comments 29 May 2008

Press the arrow to listen to Steven Curtis Chapman sing “Miracle of the Moment” while reading today’s devotion.

Scripture
When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise. Proverbs 10:19

A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed. Proverbs 11:25

He who seeks good finds goodwill…. Proverbs 11:27

Observation
If the tongue is a rudder, then a leader’s words navigate great things. Hallway conversations, parking lot interchanges, head-in-the-office-door moments can either steer the vessel home or onto the rocks. The Proverbs are probe-words that make a leader filter the words he speaks along the way.

Here are three lessons Solomon is teaching me today.

First, say little when others say a lot. When there is a blizzard of conversation, then to be sure selfish ambition is at work. The wise leader listens when others blabber. Yesterday a friend told me how he was a chauffeur for Steven Covey. He said that the motivational speaker laid down in the back seat of the car and asked endless questions and just listened for the answers.

Second, say much when others say nothing. The best encouragement comes when someone knows the good he has done, but no one has said a word of encouragement about it. Encouragement is recognizing the truth and exposing it. Encouragement does just what the history of the word implies: it puts courage into people. Every human being is like a slow leaking tire; our words of encouragement pump them up. It is not long after this that others will encourage in return.

Finally, find the best in everything and in every one, and they will find the best in you. The attitude we project toward others is what is mirrored back toward us. Those who pursue good find goodwill.

Application
My life is about leaders, teams and words. I need to maximize them. I need to reflect early in the day what needs to be said, and not let my conversations be only spontaneous.

Prayer
Father, use my tongue for good today. When others are speaking much, beat me over the head so I remember to say little. When others are saying nothing, extract me from self-focus to say a lot. And give me eyes to see what is good that no one is cheering about and to pursue it. The bottom line today, please speak through me. Amen.

Hope, Thanks, Words

Background Noise

No Comments 22 November 2007

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Today is Thanksgiving Day, so here’s a journal from my archives. It comes from November 2001, just after 9/11.

Thankful,

Phil

When Thomas Edison turned the crank of the first phonograph, stunned people for the first time in history heard the sound of their own voices. The poor heard music designed for kings. Those who had never met a President heard him from one of the wax records. The voice of an opera singer or the laughter of a comedian could be played whenever, wherever a person desired.

But as remarkable as Edison’s contraption was, some of the most famous artists of his day would not condescend to allow their music to be recorded by such a crude instrument. The reason why—the Edison phonograph produced almost as much background noise as it did recorded sound.

The wind up motor that drove the turntable ground like a meat grinder—grrrrrrr. And the diamond needle scratching across the cylinder hissed like a leaking tire—hssssss.

Today we have iPods that produce pure sound. But in the early days along with the sound of the music came the grrrrrrr of the motor and the hssssss of the needle.

The other morning our family was getting up for Sunday church. Sunday starts at 4.30am for the McCallum’s. Levi has to be at his lighting ministry by 6.00am, Laurel at the children’s ministry by 6.30am, as well as Leslie and I for 7.00am. As they piled in the car there was a lot of grrrrrrr and hssssss in the background. (In case you’re thinking I’m the one who drags the kids out of bed at 4.30am, it was actually their idea to serve in these ministries.)

It was then that I remembered the old Edison phonograph that I have stored back in Australia. I told the kids what I just wrote for you to read. Then I added, “Our lives are producing something far more important than music. We are playing our testimony of Jesus in the work that we do for him. We may be doing the work for him, but are we adding background noise of grumbling and complaining. People may see a little bit of Jesus in us, but in the background they hear a lot of grrrrrrr and hssssss as well.”

Something must have been absorbed into their souls, because before long I heard laughter from the back seat. We may have even sung a song as we drove through the pre-dawn darkness. There is nothing like an MP3 rendition of our service for Jesus with no background hiss, just pure sound.

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17

This has been a tough year for the United States. I read on one church sign the topic of this week’s sermon, “What’s Left of Thanksgiving?” I detected a sound of grrrrr and hssss in the background.

With the attack on the twin towers and the present state of war on terrorism it is a time many Americans are huddling close together to count their blessings.

We’ll be sharing Thanksgiving with a number of families including the Lockwood family. Glen has just returned from New York where he was the second in charge for the American Red Cross’ operations at Ground Zero in Manhattan.

Coming from the centre of the disaster one would think there would be much background noise of complaint to serve in such a disaster. But in talking with Glen shortly after he returned I didn’t hear a single scratch. Glen spoke in hushed tones of thankful awe that he had been allowed to participate in the disaster relief. He told of his sense of regret to leave and the sense of responsibility he left behind.

If Glen could serve at Ground Zero “in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” then it must be possible to reproduce the life of Jesus without interference whatever our condition might be.

I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving, not just in name only but in practice. Try it, you’ll be amazed how good it makes you feel. Most of all the Lord will enjoy it and others will thank you as well.


I'm Phil McCallum, a husband, father and most of all one of the people Jesus loves. I'm privileged to serve Evergreen Community Church in Bothell, Washington as Senior Pastor where people love enough to believe "it's all about relationships." In 1982 I made a vow to read God's word daily and apply it to life. Each day I write out my reflections. Some days I post those on my blog. It's a little personal but it's my hope it will stir you to go deeper still. Learn how I do my devotions. These are my thoughts and not necessarily those of the ministry I serve. By the way check out the computer study Bible Glo. I highly recommend it.

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