Humility, Mercy, Pride, Success

Lessons from the Back Row

No Comments 18 January 2008

Scripture
“But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed. Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’ I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Luke 18:13-14

Observation
My dad was a university professor with tons of experience watching students. He told me before my first college class, “Don’t sit in the back row where the students talk. Sit at the front so you can listen.” He was right. Front rows have been a life habit of mine. But Jesus tells me something different today. There are times it pleases God to sit in the back.

The tax collector “stood at a distance” and was closest to God. He, and not the preacher on the front row, was the example to follow.

Application
I wonder how often I walk into church with a sense that I belong there. I grew up in the church. My dad was a pastor. I’m a pastor. It’s all very familiar, maybe too familiar. What would happen if I stopped at the back and pondered my inadequacy.

In the Parliaments of the British Commonwealth there is at the entry doors a bar placed across the open doorway. In the Queensland State Parliament, where I lived in Brisbane, there is a golden bar across the doorway. Visitors are called “strangers” and if a non-member of parliament is invited to speak he maybe asked to stand behind the bar and address parliament at a distance.

Maybe we need to put a bar across the doorway, not of church, but across the threshold of every life entry. When we walk into the office, or the boardroom, or the classroom, or the restaurant or even our own homes, it would be good if we paused and reflected on our unworthiness and Christ’s full sufficiency. Everything is better than we deserve. That is the nature of mercy. That hesitation to pause to acknowledge our sinfulness and need of a Saviour could make all of the difference.

Prayer
Father, the only ticket of entrance I have into heaven or your presence is my confession that I am a sinful person. Have mercy on me. And let me seek that mercy at every entry point of life, for I am unworthy of it all. Everything is better than I deserve. Amen.

Overcoming, Praise, Success, Worship

Essential Excitement

No Comments 14 November 2007

As happy as…

As happy as…

Scripture
O Israel, rejoice in your Maker.
O people of Jerusalem, exult in your King.
Praise his name with dancing,
accompanied by tambourine and harp.
For the Lord delights in his people;
he crowns the humble with victory.
Let the faithful rejoice that he honors them.
Let them sing for joy as they lie on their beds.
Psalm 149:2-5

Observation
“Do you know any good verses about dancing in the Bible?”

It wasn’t the question I expected from my pastor-friend. He is the kind of guy more comfortable on a surfboard than a dance floor. He was scratching up sermon filler for a talk he was crafting about creative arts in services.

Being the sort of guy who leaves dancing in the hands (or rather feet) of professionals I had not given it much thought before. But my concordance brought up Psalm 149. My eyebrows lifted; God’s people are encouraged to dance.

The first question obviously is why God would invite his people to the dance floor? Look at the context. God wants his people to become excited about him. Excitement is essential for a healthy human life. The Lord has given us plenty of reason for exuberance. He “crowns the humble with victory” and “he honors them”. Pay day and graduation day come when God, after months or even years of waiting, awards us with the answer. Monotone and monochrome will not do in such times. Excitement is essential.

But why dancing? Think of it this way. Have you ever watched the gameshow Deal or No Deal? What happens when a contestant wins a wad of cash? They often jump up and down for joy. I’ve done the same when I sold a house or bought another, or got a job, or had my first date with my wife. There are moments that joy must become a contact sport. I may punch my fist into the air and say, “Yes!” or I may jump in the living room floor with the phone in my hand. When I’m excited my body often gets involved.

If we can keep dancing as simple as jumping up and down for joy then we won’t miss the message of this Psalm. God wants us to become excited because he has designed praise to be good for us. Whether it’s singing or moving, exulting in the Lord changes good news into something healthy. Otherwise success, as the cliche claims, can go to our head. Praise burns the adrenaline of achievement so that it does not harm the body with pride.

Adrenaline is an interesting body chemical. It is fantastic at getting us to move in crisis. But if adrenaline just flows through the body without muscles burning it off it can turn into fatigue and exhaustion. That’s why exercise is so important for good emotional health because it burns off the adrenaline created by stress.

There is a spiritual adrenaline that comes from moments of success that if left unused can do damage to our souls. Praise and worship or getting excited about the goodness of God is what spares us from the damage of self-centeredness. Worship enables us to turn our success into praise and to return to the Lord what he has given to us. Excitement is essential to our spiritual health even if it means a little tap dancing when God comes through with a long-awaited answer.

Application
Excitement is essential for me. What an incredible gift the Lord has given to me that I might enjoy him. The comforting thought is that I can even do this in bed for it says, “Let them sing for joy as they lie on their beds.” Praying into my pillow is my kind of worship!

Prayer
Father, help me to enjoy the privileges of worship of you and help my life inspire others to turn their success into praise, for you are worth getting excited about. Amen.

Blessing, God's Presence, Love, Motives, Service, Serving, Success

How to Get an “A” From God

No Comments 12 November 2007

Scripture
But now let me show you a way of life that is best of all. 1 Corinthians 12:31

Observation
There are two ways to pray about the days that we live.

First is to pray, “Lord, use me greatly.”
It accents the word “greatly”.
It’s a showroom prayer from the staring line.

The other is to ask, “Lord, greatly use me.”
The spotlight is on the word “use”.
It’s a workshop prayer that will get us past the finish line.

We have a choice in life to be remembered for our gifts or to be recalled for our love.

It is clear which way of living is most excellent. Humans define excellence in terms of performance while God only grades the quality of our love. While we polish the finish, God checks the dipstick to see what’s on the inside.

Application
If I want an A in God’s course of life I need not so much to perform well but as to love well.

Prayer
Father, this sentence is a teaser to look past the skills of life and to find the heart of living. If I am remembered for how well I performed I have failed. If you are remembered because of how I loved, then I have succeeded. Lord, love through me today. Amen.

Blessing, Fruitfulness, Small Beginnings, Success

Good Idea or God Idea?

No Comments 16 October 2007

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Scripture
If they are planning and doing these things merely on their own, it will soon be overthrown. But if it is from God, you will not be able to overthrow them. You may even find yourselves fighting against God! Acts 5:38-39

Observation
Pushing uphill or momentum. Both are movement but differ greatly. With plenty of panting a man can push a bolder up a mountain. But what is that compared to a rock slide?

There are good ideas and then there are God-ideas. Both can swirl with activity and acclaim. But the test is time. If the activity stops with the person who started it, it is just another good idea. But if the thing grows no matter who is in charge then God is on the move.

Application
In 46 years of living I’ve had some good ideas and occasionally swept up in a God idea. I know which I’d rather have. I know what I want today. So my prayer today must not be, “Lord, bless what I am doing.” Instead I must pray, “Lord, place me where you are blessing.” I want to be swept away in an avalanche bigger than I am.

Prayer
Father, it is not about me, it’s about You. Most of the time I forget that, but let that not be the case today. It’s all about You. Would you please introduce me to the God-idea you have for my life? No that’s a wrong prayer. Let me try again. Do this: show me the God-idea you have for the world and then let me get caught up in it. For if it is really You, it must be bigger than me. Please introduce me to the good works you have planned in advance for me to do. Amen.

Accountability, Blessing, Fruitfulness, Success

Beyond a Passbook Savings View of Life

No Comments 06 October 2007

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What the Bible Says
The first servant reported, ‘Master, I invested your money and made ten times the original amount!’ “‘Well done!’ the king exclaimed. ‘You are a good servant. You have been faithful with the little I entrusted to you, so you will be governor of ten cities as your reward.’

“But the third servant brought back only the original amount of money and said, ‘Master, I hid your money and kept it safe. I was afraid because you are a hard man to deal with, taking what isn’t yours and harvesting crops you didn’t plant.’ “‘Yes,’ the king replied, ‘and to those who use well what they are given, even more will be given. But from those who do nothing, even what little they have will be taken away.
Luke 19:16, 17, 20, 21, 26

What My Mind Thinks
What holds us back from becoming all that God has imagined us to be? It is our desire to play it safe. It’s the tendency to live with a passbook savings account mentality in a bull market economy.

The interest rate of Jesus is frankly out of this world. His rate of return doubles investments, or a 100% dividend rate. The only thing he asks of us is calculated risks. We are not to spend his resources, we are to invest them. We need to place them strategically in the hands of others where they can become greater. That requires thought, demands, foresight, trust and accountability.

But with returns of 100% we want to play it safe. Why? Because we are afraid not so much of failure as we are of disappointing God. “I was afraid because you are a hard man to deal with….” Our ability to succeed in life depends on our perception of God’s face. If we we live with a fear of his scowl we will hide our nest egg under the mattress. But if we can capture something of the glee and merriment of God at our forward success we will look for opportunities and take them.

Years ago my aunt put a book in my hands with one quote that has changed my outlook. It comes from Annie Dillard’s Pulitzer Prize Winning Book, Pilgrim On Tinker Creek:

“There is always an enormous temptation in all of life to diddle around making itsy-bitsy friends and meals and journeys for itsy-bitsy years on end. I won’t have it. The world is wilder than that in all directions, more dangerous and bitter, more extravagant and bright. We are making hay when we should be making whoopee; we are raising tomatoes when we should be raising Cain or Lazarus.”

How My Heart Acts
It is time for me to invest…with wisdom. Instead of the self-conscious life that worries what God will think with this or that, I must think of the joy I can bring to his heart by making the most he has given to me while there is yet time.

What My Spirit Prays
Father, today I want to be an investor of what you have given to me. Liberate me from the paralysis of bewilderment of options. Help me to discern the appropriate opportunities. And then hover over my investments with the Miracle Grow of the kingdom of God. The best is yet to come. Amen.

Family, Home, Marriage, Success

Where to Find Reward Points

No Comments 16 September 2007

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It was 1965 and this was my family. I’m the little guy on the right. Our family spanned the babyboom. My oldest brother was born in 1946 and me at the end in 1961. My sister doesn’t look very happy because she got in trouble for not standing still for the picture. :(  Doesn’t my Dad look like a rich man?

Scripture
How joyful are those who fear the Lord—
all who follow his ways!
You will enjoy the fruit of your labor.
How joyful and prosperous you will be!
Your wife will be like a fruitful grapevine,
flourishing within your home.
Your children will be like vigorous young olive trees
as they sit around your table.
That is the Lord’s blessing
for those who fear him.

May the Lord continually bless you from Zion.
May you see Jerusalem prosper as long as you live.
May you live to enjoy your grandchildren.
May Israel have peace! Psalm 128:1-6

Observation
Where are the great rewards found in life? Frequent flyer points? Maybe on the Dow Jones? Or how about Vegas? Nope. Not in any of those places. The world’s greatest reward is not found around the kitchen table with dad at the head, mom wiping spaghetti up from under the high chair, milk drizzling through a the crack in the middle of the table and lots of giggles hemming the edges. Relationships at home are the greatest treasure of life and children are a sign of prosperity.

For the first time in US history the number of nuclear families has dropped below 25 per cent of the population. Nonetheless the word of God is still stands true. The greatest blessing God can give in this life

to a man is his wife

and to a woman is her husband

and to husband and wife are children.

I’m glad that I was born before the microwave replaced the fireplace in the home. My mom planned her meal menu a month in advance and stocked her pantry and freezer with parts of the meal not packages. Mealtime was an event. Our plate always included meat, a green vegetable, a yellow one and salad. Desert followed like clockwork as did family prayers. My mom worked a full-time job to help keep five children fed and my brother in college. How she managed these productions without a microwave I’ll never know. But what an investment she made in our souls as well as our bodies. Those thirty minutes around the maple kitchen table followed by another 30 minutes around the kitchen sink hold the happiest memories of my life. Meal time was the cabinet meeting of our family. My folks weren’t rich but they were wealthy. Their nest eggs smiled at them every night as they dangled their little feet around the table.

I’ve been coaching my son through the process of buying his first home. He and his wife have scrimped and saved for a deposit, but the escalating cost of homes keeps eluding their grasp. Here’s what I told him. What matters most is not the house but the people in it. So God can delay things to get the family ready to move in. The proof of that the family matters more than the house is that in future years you will lose touch of homes that you own, but you will always want to keep in touch with your children. I’ve owned three houses, but I don’t phone their current owners to see how the water heater is holding up or if the pool is clean. Those homes served their season and are now memories. But I phone my children nearly every day, though we are scattered across 10,000 miles from one another. My children not my houses are my reward. I told my son, “Give God time to build what matters and dare to believe that he wants you to have a home more than you do. Just give him time.”

Application
How can we see this blessing delivered in microwave families? Listen to this advice:

How joyful are those who fear the Lord…

May the Lord continually bless you from Zion.

To inherit God’s richest blessings we need to do two things:

First fear the Lord. Remember that one of the prime mandates of being a parent is not to be popular. Our goal is not to keep our children happy. A happy home will come when we become more concerned with what God thinks than with what the neighbor’s kids are doing.

Second stay close to God’s people. God blesses families out of Zion the city of God. The city of God is the local church. The closer we stay to the fellowship of believers the nearer we come to the way God blesses families. It takes more than a whole village to raise a child, it takes a whole and healthy local church.

Prayer
Father, I want to see your blessing around my table. My kids are starting to scatter. It’s good because they are starting to take root and flourish where you have placed them. But I do ask for moments when you fulfill this promise and gather them all around our table in our home. I cannot imagine any reward greater than that. Amen.

Endurance, Hope, Injustice, Small Beginnings, Success

Where Successful People Come From

1 Comment 10 September 2007

Here I am at age 6 with a bandaged playground injury sitting on the knee of Uncle Henry, the man who was the grandfather I never had.

Here I am at age 6 with a bandaged playground injury sitting on the knee of Uncle Henry, the man who was the grandfather I never had.

Scripture

So it is good to wait quietly
for salvation from the Lord.
And it is good for people to submit at an early age
to the yoke of his discipline:

For no one is abandoned
by the Lord forever.

Lamentations 3:26, 27, 31

 

Observation

What is the recipe for creating a person of success? We would think that it would begin with plenty of love, nurture, compassion, encouragement, grace, kindness, and all of the other best intentions we have for our children.

 

 

But experience with people shows again and again it is those who have started life with the gift of hardship who are often most successful. Some of the most successful people I have known began life in poverty, abuse, rejection, and pain. But it was that early hardship that introduced them to the secrets of life success.

 

“It is good for people to submit at an early age to the yoke of his discipline”, Jeremiah wrote.

For those who are passing through hardship in their early years, there is hope in these words. With the Lord there is no freedom from pain, but instead our hope is that our pain can be used for his purposes. Those God wishes to grace with success will often be given the gift of hardship early in life to teach them the lessons of success. Those who have suffered while they are young should have the most hope of better things to come. As A.W. Tozer said, “It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.” (From Glorify his name! Root of the Righteous, chapter 39.)

Jeremiah was an old man as he wrote these words, but he could remember his years as a young prophet suffering great abuse. Now as an old man he was watching young men of Jerusalem suffering their first bruises in the aftermath of war. Jeremiah made quite a list of hardships a young man can experience that are signs of future success:

…walled in (verse 7)

…heavy chains (verse 7)

…blocked with a high stone wall (verse 9)

…target for his arrows (verse 12)

…arrows deep into my heart (verse 13)

…people laugh at me (verse 14)

…chew on gravel (verse 16)

…rolled in the dust (verse 16)

 

But still Jeremiah wrote,

Yet I still dare to hope
when I remember this:

The faithful love of the Lord never ends
His mercies never cease.

Great is his faithfulness;
his mercies begin afresh each morning.
(verses 21-23)

 

 

It seems that the best view of the Lord comes not at the top, but from the bottom.

 

I remember when I first moved to Australia, living amongst the tall gum trees of the Dandenong Mountains. I went for a walk with my camera to take pictures to send to my family in America. I wanted to give them some sense of the slender stature of the eucalypts of Australia. I took my Kodak Instamatic and placed it at the base of the tree looking upward through the branches to the crown. When the pictures were developed I discovered that trees are best appreciated not from a distance but from the bottom. As the camera lens captures the slender trunk and waving branches we can get a feel for how mighty a tree can be. And so it is with the Lord. His greatness of mercy so fresh every sunrise is seen best not from the high blessings of life but from the low hardships.

 

 

Application

I must embrace my hardships if I am to be successful in life. Success begins when I don’t lose heart with my early failures but see them as but the precursors of success.

 

Prayer

 

Father, use all that I have experienced in life both good and bad to prepare me for better days to come. Amen.

I'm Phil McCallum, a husband, father and most of all one of the people Jesus loves. I'm privileged to serve Evergreen Community Church in Bothell, Washington as Senior Pastor where people love enough to believe "it's all about relationships." In 1982 I made a vow to read God's word daily and apply it to life. Each day I write out my reflections. Some days I post those on my blog. It's a little personal but it's my hope it will stir you to go deeper still. Learn how I do my devotions. These are my thoughts and not necessarily those of the ministry I serve. By the way check out the computer study Bible Glo. I highly recommend it.

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