Leadership, Men

Who Leads the Leader?

No Comments 10 April 2010

Listen to the story of Boyd and Wanda Cochran from our church Evergreen Community Church in Bothell, Washington.

Scripture

They rose about daybreak and Samuel called to Saul on the roof, “Get ready, and I will send you on your way.” When Saul got ready, he and Samuel went outside together. As they were going down to the edge of the town, Samuel said to Saul, “Tell the servant to go on ahead of us”-and the servant did so-”but you stay here awhile, so that I may give you a message from God.” 1 Samuel 9:26-27

Observation
The servant leads the king. That is the whole problem with Saul’s leadership over Israel. The fissure in Saul’s personality is obvious from the first day on the job. His leadership opens on the pages of history with the story of lost donkeys and Saul’s hunt to find them accompanied with his servant. Instead of Saul leading the expedition, it is the slave at every step who perceives and encourages. The leader is following his employee.

Compare this to Saul’s son Jonathan. A few years later, while Saul is biting his manicure off in fear of his enemies, Jonathan has the courage to act. He calls his servant to follow him in a risky attack. His slave replies, “Go ahead; I am with you heart and soul.” (1 Sam 14:7)

Saul was not the leader he could have been because the king followed his servant and a son was greater than his father.

Application
I do not want Saul’s problem to be my problem. I know the voice of God. I can see a way forward. I have friends with me on this journey. They are good friends to encourage me, but only God can lead me. As a leader I must choose to be led by God. I must protect the times that no one has access to me except God. That requires me to walk into the vacuum of aloneness that every leader feels and live with the void behind him, unsure in the first moments if anyone will follow. I need friends with me on this journey but only God can go before me. I want to be a Jonathan and not a Saul.

Prayer
Today, help me to lead as I’m led by you and you alone. Keep my friends who correct me, console me and occasionally to confront me so that I may follow you better. Amen.

Hope, Leadership

What Only a Leader Can See

No Comments 21 December 2009

Scripture
And His disciples asked Him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?” Jesus answered, “It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him. John 9:2-3

Observation
A non-leader sees things as they are. A leader sees things as they can be. The disciples could only diagnose the blind man’s problem. Jesus, on the other hand, could prophesy a miracle.

Jesus was more than optimistic. Optimism is never enough to make an overcoming leader because positivity is not weatherproof. Storms will come that will melt optimism. Something deeper with resources out of reach needs to feed the hope of a leader.

This is why successful leaders must be spiritual people. They can see not just what is happening on the surface but also what God is doing under the surface. Viewing problems must be a devotional experience, where the leader presents to God the condition and waits for insight to see what God can do.

Application
“Some men see things as they are and ask why I dream things that never were and ask why not.” Those words of Robert Kennedy could have been spoken by Jesus and need to be lived by me today.

Prayer
Father, help me to see under the surface to detect what you are doing. I believe Lord! Amen.

Church, Leadership

Churches Need Fathers

No Comments 09 November 2009

Scripture
When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly. Up to this moment we have become the scum of the earth, the refuse of the world. I am not writing this to shame you, but to warn you, as my dear children. Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. Therefore I urge you to imitate me. 1 Corinthians 4:12-16

Observation
There are motivational speakers, managers, promoters, corporate types, bureaucrats, consultants and entrepreneurs, all who would like to lead the local church. To a church, these kind of leaders are appealing because they hold the promise of putting the church on the map. Danger lurks in flattery. In the process of becoming something, often the church loses something.

Just as children need parents, so churches improve with fathers. These kind of leaders offer more than ideas, they give DNA, more than consulting but commitment, more than inspiration but love in action. A father is more than a guru. He is one personally involved for the best of the people. The distinguishing mark of such a leader is that he leads by example. He does not coerce, he models the best and inspires others to follow.

How can a worthy spiritual father be identified? A father is seen not by what he has to offer but by what he has given up for the benefit of his children. “Scum of the earth” and “refuse of the world” puts it nicely. These men have the most to offer.

Application
Throughout my life, I’m thankful that I’ve been part of churches that have been fathered well. There have been men of God, outside of the church, whose hearts were with the church who guided us. Sometimes it was an official role. Other times it was unofficial. But in every case they brought a seasoning of maturity and stability to the church. I want that in my life.

Prayer
Father, continue to surround me with the men who are fathers in the faith who can give health to your people. Amen.

Leadership, Pastor, People Skills

People Jesus Noticed

No Comments 22 October 2009

Scripture
Now as Jesus was walking by the Sea of Galilee, He saw two brothers, Simon who was called Peter, and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen. And He said to them, “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.” Matthew 4:18-19

Observation
What kind of people did Jesus notice while he walked the earth? It’s important to know, because too often we take notice of the wrong type of people. If his focus is our focus then we can do the works of Jesus better.

Here are those Jesus noticed.

1. People who don’t go to church. Those uncomfortable in a synagogue seemed to be his favorites. He didn’t make the assumption that those who don’t go to church are not interested in God. Instead he looked in the eyes of the 90 per cent of the population and found something of the God-spark in them. The disciples seemed to drift to the pharisees, but Jesus kept the focus on those who have not yet come. As he became more popular he fought himself out of the circle of adoration and directed more attention on them. They mattered much to him.

2. Little people with big faith. Not much impressed Jesus except faith. When he saw faith everything stopped. Great faith was the only thing that would bring surprise to his face.

3. Unassembled leaders. Jesus ignored the seminaries in favor of the business world. There he found leaders in the rough. He saw potential in others before they could see it in themselves. He cherished that potential and mined it out with great skill.

4. Those hungry from obedience. Hungry people brought the most out of Jesus. He spoke for 3 days to hungry people until they were starving. He called his family members those who hear the word of God and obey it. There was little patience in Jesus with those who were lazy and hungry. But give him a hardworking man, hungry from doing his will and his attention was aroused.

Who didn’t get special attention from Jesus? Anyone who was satisfied with themselves, resting on their achievements, who felt just that little bit better than others to be good enough for God. They did receive attention from Jesus, but not the kind we would like to receive.

Application
My leadership is limited by the people I notice or don’t notice. If I’m caught up in my own self-importance or pride in my cause, I only notice star players who can help me look good. We may shine, but Jesus will not be seen. But if I can get over myself enough to be enamored with Jesus, there is hope that I will notice his kind of people. There is something in church life that fights against noticing Jesus’ kind of people. It’s called “redemption lift”. Following Jesus improves my condition and so I forget from when I came. I must fight to get back to origins, so that I remain the kind of person Jesus would want to notice. Then there is home that I will be focused on Jesus’ friends.

Prayer
Father, everything in church life pulls me away from these beautiful people. We create church for folks like us. We are more impressed with credentials than with faith. We want ready-made leaders rather than the unassembled ones. We want a banquet hall without a work out room. Jesus save me from your followers lest we make a world that is comfortable for us. Just as you repeatedly pulled the disciples out of comfort zones, so keep me in a world where I can see things as you do. I choose today to value those you value. Just help me to get over myself. Amen.

Leadership

Fielding Selfish Requests

No Comments 03 March 2009

Press the arrow to listen to Brooke Fraser sing “How Great Thou Art” at Hillsong 2008 as you read today’s devotion about focus.

Scripture
They continued, “If you think we’ve done a good job so far, give us this country for our inheritance. Don’t make us go across the Jordan.” Moses answered the families of Gad and Reuben: “Do you mean that you are going to leave the fighting that’s ahead to your brothers while you settle down here? Why would you even think of letting the People of Israel down, demoralizing them just as they’re about to move into the land God gave them? That’s exactly what your ancestors did when I sent them from Kadesh Barnea to survey the country. Numbers 32:5-12

Observation
What has surprised me most as a leader is the capacity of people to make selfish requests  of me and the whole team at the expense of others. The nature of being a leader is to focus on the mission and sacrifice to accomplish it. It is a head spinner to meet a few who think only of their own wants and not the needs of everyone else. But such people do exist and they regularly seek out leaders.

Moses was almost ready to let go of the steering wheel, but nonetheless, he too faced selfishness among the people. Two tribes didn’t want to go over the river to fight. They saw the open fields and empty towns around them on the east side of the river and asked to stay put. They did not offer to fight, just to settle. There actions were not just selfish, they were demoralizing to everyone else.

What stands out in this story was Moses’ leadership. Moses did exactly what a leader should do by pointing out the ramifications of their selfish choice. The tribes of Rueben and Gad couldn’t see that self-centredness because they didn’t have a leader’s point of view. Moses could see it because he looked at every decision in terms of the prime mandate: leave Egypt, survive the desert and conquer the land flowing with milk and honey. That sentence kept Moses awake nights and moving on in the daylight. Moses did what a leader is supposed to do. He called the people back to the mission even when they didn’t want to do it, so that they could have what they had longed for over the past 40 years. That is a tough thing to do, but that is leadership.

Application
The difference between a leader and a non-leader is selflessness. A leader wants what is best for all the people over the longest time. A non-leader wants what is best for himself, immediately. In every decision I face, I am at the cross roads of that decision. Will I be selfish or panoramic in my outlook? I want to be one found on the west side of the river, even if it means that I’m the last one to find a home for myself.

Prayer
Father, today I ask that you would help me in every decision to keep the mission in view. Help me not to be deterred by selfishness whether it is in me or in others. Keep my eyes on Jesus, focused forward so that all of your people can experience all of your blessings. Amen.

Leadership

The Best Leaders are Handmade

No Comments 10 December 2008

Press the arrow to listen to Newday sing “Let The Rain Come” as you read today’s devotion about mentoring.

Scripture
I remember your genuine faith, for you share the faith that first filled your grandmother Lois and your mother, Eunice. And I know that same faith continues strong in you. This is why I remind you to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you when I laid my hands on you.

Hold on to the pattern of wholesome teaching you learned from me—a pattern shaped by the faith and love that you have in Christ Jesus. Through the power of the Holy Spirit who lives within us, carefully guard the precious truth that has been entrusted to you.

But you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you. You have been taught the holy Scriptures from childhood, and they have given you the wisdom to receive the salvation that comes by trusting in Christ Jesus. 2 Timothy 1:5, 6, 13, 14; 2 Timothy 3:14, 15

Observation
It won’t come through a DVD. A podcast won’t infuse it. It won’t rub off at a conference. Leadership development happens best in relationship, because the best leaders are handmade. Timothy became the leader he was because he lived within arm’s length of Paul and his family.

Truth must be mixed with personality to stick with us throughout life. It takes more than principles, for mentoring requires people who will live three dimensionally the ideals kept in books.

Young leaders should seek out accessible mentors. Because of the multitude of ways to communicate, certain megastars of ministry miles away crowd out the average mentor just a block away. There is so much in print and online that every young leader should access. But this should never replace the ordinary, but accessible, pastor who can, like Paul, craft a handmade leader out of Timothy.

Mentors should make accessibility their top priority. Development happens best through personal touch and not by remote control.  Paul could call Timothy to pattern himself after what he had seen in Paul, because the apostle had let Timothy travel with him and see him in everyday life.

Parents should remember that the greatest discipling ministry is the home. Paul was a remarkable mentor, but he could only work with the upbringing that Timothy had. Eunice and Lois wove the scriptures into daily life. They started the nail and Paul drove it home.

Application
I’ve had many mentors at arm’s length. Their presence now is gone, but I have a responsibility to what they have given to me. Paul said about mentoring:

Fan it
Hold onto it
Guard it
Be faithful to it
Go back to it

No matter how how far I go in leadership, I will never outgrow my mentors. I need what they have given to me every moment. I must reflect on what they have given to me and build on it in my life.

Prayer
Father, I’ve been given so much by other leaders. I ask not just that I will be able to give what I’ve been given, but I ask that there will be desire in those to whom I give to scrape out of me all that you’ve given me to give. Surround me with hungry leaders. Amen.

Character, Leadership

The Secret of Greatness

No Comments 06 October 2008

Press the arrow to listen to “Hear Us From Heaven” by Rod Parsley while reading today’s devotion about greatness.

Scripture
Indeed, Mordecai was great in the king’s house, and his fame spread throughout all the provinces; for the man Mordecai became greater and greater. Esther 9:4

Observation
Mordecai the lowly, faithful doorman, rose to replace Haman, the horrible henchman as prime minister of the land. The story of Esther, is in many ways more about her foster-father than herself. She was the actor on stage, while Mordecai wrote the lines for her to speak.

What did Mordecai change about himself to become “greater and greater” in the sight of the king and the people in all of the far-flung provinces? He did not change a thing, that is why he became greater. Greatness came to Mordecai because he lived out unchangable principles without compromise. Because he kept doing great things no matter the indifference and hostility, he was eventually perceived as a great man. Those great things included faithfulness to an orphaned niece, initiative to enter her into a beauty contest, loyalty to the king, and courage to speak to a proud princess.

Application
Greatness is not a single action, but the accumulation of many actions. Greatness has seasons. There are hard initial days when all the world seems to blow in the face with a contrary wind. But the persistence to stagger forward against the gale is what makes greatness.  There is another side of persistence when integrity has its rewards. Mordecai tasted them and so too will we if we will persist doing what is right  no matter the condition.

Prayer
Father, today I ask that you will help me to do the little things of life well, for in in the grains of sand is made the concrete of greatness in my life. Amen.

I'm Phil McCallum, a husband, father and most of all one of the people Jesus loves. I'm privileged to serve Evergreen Community Church in Bothell, Washington as Senior Pastor where people love enough to believe "it's all about relationships." In 1982 I made a vow to read God's word daily and apply it to life. Each day I write out my reflections. Some days I post those on my blog. It's a little personal but it's my hope it will stir you to go deeper still. Learn how I do my devotions. These are my thoughts and not necessarily those of the ministry I serve. By the way check out the computer study Bible Glo. I highly recommend it.

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