
When Levi was 14 (just three years ago) I gave to him a ring to as a seal of his commitment to sexual purity. It came after three months of weekly dinners and discipling and the last feat of scaling a volcanic cone of basalt.

Here is the ring I gave Levi in his hand. That hand is twice the size today!
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 3:17
If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! Matthew 7:11
And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39
There are many goods in life. Some of them are good, some of them are not so good for us. Only God knows the difference. The goal of life is to enjoy the presence of God not things. When possessions come our goal is to enjoy God’s presence through the gifts he gives to us. True prosperity is not having stuff but enjoying the presence of the Lord in the things he gives. Those gifts cover everything from our pay check, to houses, health, household goods and things on wheels.
God is a Father who loves to give appropriate gifts to his children. Just as any human father anticipates Christmas morning after a night time of assembly, so too our heavenly Father loves us and loves to see our reaction when he gives us the gifts that we need. Like any dad his aim is not just to give us stuff, but to leave us with tangible expressions of his love. A gift in its purest form is a condensation of love.
There are many things in life that we can gain without God’s love. There are possessions in life that we can grasp for, grab after and even gain them. But God isn’t in them. When the cellophane is off somehow they leave us feeling more alone. To get them we have to step out of the love of God, out of his provision, timing and will. We have to overspend, overwork, manipulate, borrow, break relationships, covet, envy, worry or whatever else it takes to reach that little bit more to get them.
Possessions and possessing not only can be but should become a way that we come to love God more and relate better with him. This is not just a good idea, it is a necessity. Otherwise we will seek gifts and not the Giver or worse yet end up with goods that do us no good at all. The result is greed, worry, envy and covetousness.
How can we have hopes for some of the things of life while deepening our relationship with the Lord? Here’s the secret: seek only what comes out of the love of God.
Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4
Imagine a river that flows from under the throne of God from the crystal sea. It courses down the main avenue of heaven and tumbles over the precipice into our lives. This river is pure, distilled love. This water is all that we need in life and it floods our hearts with joy. There are many things that look good that are away from this river. Some things are a far journey away. But to have them you must leave the river and the love of God flowing into your life. So you make the choice not to chase after them but to remain in the midst of the flow of love that comes from God’s throne straight into your heart. Now imagine that the Lord deposits into that river some of the necessities of life. A car floats past, then comes a sofa, next a pencil, over there a house, then a pair of socks and so on. Sure the image is crude but hang with it for a moment. What matters most, those goods or the love that conveyed them to you? The answer is obvious. Nothing is greater than the love of God.
So here is how we keep our souls clean from the corrosion of greed. Come to love the river of God’s love that transports good things into your life and not the goods themselves. When those things come take them as reminders of his presence and enjoy them in his presence. But keep focused on the love and not the goods themselves. And above all don’t seek anything unless it has come into your life as a gift from the Lord.
It is true that nothing can separate us from the love of God, but it is equally true that we can step out of God’s love when we prowl after possessions without God’s presence. When I find myself manipulating, overstretching financially, overtaxing my body, stepping, on, over and pushing through people to get my way then I can be certain I have stepped out of God’s love in search of things.
Stay in the Lord’s love and enjoy the good gifts as reminders of the Father above. God wants to bless us, but not to pull our hearts from him but to draw us close to his heart.
Father in a season of life when I need to ask you for many practical helps, please keep my focus clear so that I seek you and not what you have to give to me. Your presence is the best present I could ever have. Amen.