Anger, Challenge, Overcoming, People Skills, Uncategorized

The Power of a Question

No Comments 29 October 2009

Press the arrow to listen to Phil Stacey “You’re Not Shaken” as you read today’s devotion about handling confrontational moments.

Scripture
How can Satan drive out Satan? Mark 3:23
Who are my mother and my brothers? Mark 3:33

Observation
Jesus was hit with the old “one two” punch. First came the preachers and next came his mother and brothers. Both thought that Jesus was out of his mind.

Jesus was backed into a corner. He was called a madman and he had no one to defend him. The establishment had turned their backs on him and he had lost the confidence of his own kinsfolk. It would have been easy for Jesus to have become defensive, but he didn’t make himself look pathetic.

Instead, Jesus turned to the power of a question. Questions are like hot water on ice, they melt through hardness with a power stronger than a speaker’s personality but from the weight of the question mark. After a question is asked it will keep on asking in the mind of the opponent. Questions beg to be asked. Once spoken they are sent out the door like child beggars into the street. They won’t relent until satisfied.

Question marks are hungry things.

Application
Jesus is fascinating because he is God showing us how to be a human being. There is a better way than defensiveness. There is a power of a question. If Jesus could defend himself without appearing defensive, even when accused of insanity, and still come out looking wise, then there is in this an example for me to follow today.

Prayer
Father, in the heat of the moment, when this devotional moment is long forgotten, help me to remember and to do what Jesus did and still does. Amen.

Anger, Grace, Subumission

Sweet Submission

No Comments 01 July 2009

Scripture
Remind them to be subject to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good deed, to malign no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing every consideration for all men.  For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another. But when the kindness of God our Saviour and His love for mankind appeared,  He saved us…. Titus 3:1-5

Observation
Behind the rusting Iron Curtain of the Cold War, a peasant farmer and his wife kept their faith in God through intense persecution. Their son John told me the story of a police raid on their property. A truck loaded with workmen pulled up to the farmhouse. The workers clambered up onto the roof of the little house. As a reprisal for their stubborn faith in Christ, the farmer and his wife would lose the roof of their house that day. The tiles would be removed one by one and they would be left open to the elements. Around lunchtime the old farmer sang out to the men on the roof, “Boys, come on down. Mama has fixed you some lunch.” John told me that the workers put all the tiles back in place and drove away.

Obedient and ready to spring to action that describes the motive of the Christian. When treated unfairly we are to not talk badly of others but to be peaceable and gentle.  No matter how much our point of view may not be considered, we are to consider the perspective of others, even if that means feeding a work crew that is tearing down your own house.

If Paul’s words stopped at verse 1, it would all be hard to take and impossible to do. But thankfully he adds a few more verses. He reminds us that there was a time in life that we supposed that rebellion is the way to authority. But then kindness appeared and that changed everything. It is impossible to watch the injustice of the cross and not to be moved by the tenderness of Christ. He died not for himself but for us. He forgave those who killed him. He showed mercy to his mother and to thieves. He refused anaesthetic so that he could be fully awake to love us.

Application
In the face of Christ’s kindness, of the Father’s kindness, it is hard to live selfishly. This intention of Jesus lubricates our stiff joints into action when we are asked to do what we don’t want to do. My call is not just to do good, but to do good for the right motive and to package it with the tenderness that Christ gave to his suffering. The only way we can surrender rights in that way is to have full trust in God our Saviour. What we release he will bless. He just might give us our roof back.

Prayer
Father, help me to live the Jesus life. Jesus live through me. Amen.

Anger, Love, Moods

King Kong Moments

No Comments 13 November 2007

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Scripture
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. 1 Corinthians 13

Observation

Naomi Watts plays the role of Ann Darrow, the beautiful actress who subdues the enraged Kong. The image of a great beast conquered by a delicate woman has lived with us since the movie first aired in 1933. Can something that fragile overcome something that strong?

Yes because there is a spiritual principle behind this. God is love and if he wants to conquer the world he does it through loving us. The cross of Jesus has been a show stopper for the human race. Love is like that.

There are King Kong moments for all of us, when instincts overcome reason and we can be on the edge of words that cannot be unspoken or rashness that will leave indelible skid marks on the lives of others.

How can God change the savage beast of our emotions in those angry moments? By putting love in our way. When love jaywalks across our angry path everything comes to a halt.

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

Application
Those are words to soothe the savage beast in us that comes out of hibernation. It would do us good to read those words before plotting an irate phone call. Those words could keep us from drawing lines in the sand. We need those words like the cold water bath next to the blacksmith’s forge where glowing metal is quickly cooled.

Prayer
Father, take over my life with your love. Amen.

Anger, Disappointment, Emotions, Grief, Moods, Overcoming, Setbacks, Subumission, Waiting

The Beauty of Sorrow

No Comments 08 June 2007

Listen to music while you read this entry.

Mercy Me So Long Self 

Scripture
“Frustration is better than laughter, because a sad face is good for the heart.” (Ecclesiastes 7:3)

Observation
When I read those words today I had a ‘monback moment” – you know, when the Bible snags your soul like a rosebush and says “come on back here now and study this bloom.” Most translations say “sorrow is better than laughter.” But this translation uses another word that sends me hunting to find the true definition of the word “sorrow” or “frustration”. (By way, here’s an easy way to do word studies on line.)

My dictionary tells me that the word in Hebrew means both “sorrow” and “anger” at the same time. It seems that the word “frustration” is a good compromise between the two. Grief is accepting that something lost is lost. We can feel sorrow and anger about that loss at the same time. That frustrating sadness is a good thing.

Learning to live without something we once depended upon is good heart exercise. It obviously brings us to our knees but it also brings to the surface what laughter will only disguise. Not getting our way is the best way forward.

Application

This scripture leads to a radical new direction in prayer. Instead of praying, Lord change my condition! It calls me to pray, Lord change me!

Prayer

Today, Father, I thank you for the loss of things I’ve depended on. Let the limp I walk with cause me to depend upon you more. Amen.


I'm Phil McCallum, a husband, father and most of all one of the people Jesus loves. I'm privileged to serve Evergreen Community Church in Bothell, Washington as Senior Pastor where people love enough to believe "it's all about relationships." In 1982 I made a vow to read God's word daily and apply it to life. Each day I write out my reflections. Some days I post those on my blog. It's a little personal but it's my hope it will stir you to go deeper still. Learn how I do my devotions. These are my thoughts and not necessarily those of the ministry I serve. By the way check out the computer study Bible Glo. I highly recommend it.

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