Scripture
When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly. Up to this moment we have become the scum of the earth, the refuse of the world. I am not writing this to shame you, but to warn you, as my dear children. Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. Therefore I urge you to imitate me. 1 Corinthians 4:12-16
Observation
There are motivational speakers, managers, promoters, corporate types, bureaucrats, consultants and entrepreneurs, all who would like to lead the local church. To a church, these kind of leaders are appealing because they hold the promise of putting the church on the map. Danger lurks in flattery. In the process of becoming something, often the church loses something.
Just as children need parents, so churches improve with fathers. These kind of leaders offer more than ideas, they give DNA, more than consulting but commitment, more than inspiration but love in action. A father is more than a guru. He is one personally involved for the best of the people. The distinguishing mark of such a leader is that he leads by example. He does not coerce, he models the best and inspires others to follow.
How can a worthy spiritual father be identified? A father is seen not by what he has to offer but by what he has given up for the benefit of his children. “Scum of the earth” and “refuse of the world” puts it nicely. These men have the most to offer.
Application
Throughout my life, I’m thankful that I’ve been part of churches that have been fathered well. There have been men of God, outside of the church, whose hearts were with the church who guided us. Sometimes it was an official role. Other times it was unofficial. But in every case they brought a seasoning of maturity and stability to the church. I want that in my life.
Prayer
Father, continue to surround me with the men who are fathers in the faith who can give health to your people. Amen.
